A Christening is an important religious ceremony for many families in the UK, but in some instances, differing beliefs can cause a dispute between parents. For parents who have separated or divorced, this can easily become contentious; as ever, it is important to approach the situation calmly and with respect for each other's beliefs.

The law recognises that those who have parental responsibility have equal rights when it comes to making decisions about their child's upbringing, including matters of religion. However, if conflict arises about whether their child should be baptised, it may be appropriate to seek the assistance of a mediator or solicitor.

Mediation is a voluntary process where a neutral third party helps the parents to communicate and negotiate a resolution that is acceptable to both parties. Mediation can be a useful option for parents who wish to avoid the expense and stress of going to court.

If mediation is unsuccessful or not appropriate, it may be necessary for a party to apply to the family court for a specific issue order. The court will then consider the child's best interests, as well as the parents' beliefs and wishes, in making a decision about whether the child should be baptised.

In any event, it is important for parents to remember that their child's welfare is the most important consideration. By working together and seeking the appropriate legal assistance, if necessary, parents can resolve disputes about baptisms in a way that is respectful and in the best interests of their child.